{"id":64941,"date":"2026-05-11T17:41:24","date_gmt":"2026-05-11T15:41:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/?p=64941"},"modified":"2026-05-13T23:28:47","modified_gmt":"2026-05-13T21:28:47","slug":"digital-harassment-and-the-mistake-of-believing-you-are-attacking-someone-who-will-not-retaliate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/2026\/05\/11\/digital-harassment-and-the-mistake-of-believing-you-are-attacking-someone-who-will-not-retaliate\/","title":{"rendered":"Digital harassment and the mistake of believing you are attacking someone who will not retaliate"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Social media is a fabulous forum for debate in which some people project their inability to respect others.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><rel><a href=\"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/2024\/08\/24\/how-to-spot-a-troll-on-and-off-social-media-and-what-to-do-if-one-harasses-you\/\">How to spot a troll on and off social media and what to do if one harasses you<\/a><\/rel><br \/>\n<rel><a href=\"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/2026\/04\/29\/eight-security-tips-to-prevent-your-x-twitter-account-from-being-hacked\/\">Eight security tips to prevent your X (Twitter) account from being hacked<\/a><\/rel><\/p>\n<p>Just as in real life, <strong>some people lack the most basic skills and arguments to engage in reasoned debate<\/strong>, and faced with the obvious consequences of this when confronting others with their opinions (for example, being ridiculed), <strong>some take a dangerous shortcut: harassing those who disagree with them<\/strong>. This harassment often includes not only insults, defamation, and slander against the targeted person, but also <strong>the publication of personal information to intimidate the victim and force them to self-censor<\/strong> to avoid further problems.<\/p>\n<p>I think it goes without saying, but <strong>those who choose to harass others because they are unable to respond to their arguments are demonstrating that they are despicable and intolerant people<\/strong> who hate freedom of expression, who cannot accept opinions different from their own, and who try to force others to subscribe to their views or remain silent. <strong>A democratic society cannot condone such behavior<\/strong>, and tolerating it is moving towards the law of the jungle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Those who engage in cyberbullying demonstrate a complete lack of moral scruples.<\/strong> They are malicious individuals who believe the ends justify the means and that the rules of coexistence in a civilized society do not apply to them. <strong>These kinds of people often harass others by taking advantage of the fact that their victims are not like them.<\/strong> A bully will always feel stronger the better person the victim is, believing that the victim will not retaliate. The problem for these evil people is that <strong>a bully always runs the risk of encountering a victim who is just as bad as they are, or even worse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I don't expect to peacefully convince those who act like totalitarians, but I believe it's necessary to issue a warning, for the good of society. Under normal circumstances, <strong>a person who expresses their opinions respectfully online has the incentive of public scrutiny to act correctly<\/strong>. If they say something wrong or commit an injustice, that person knows their prestige and credibility would be at risk. However, <strong>when a harassment campaign is successful, the victim usually fades into the background and becomes discreet<\/strong>. What was once a person who dedicated their time to offering arguments and protecting their reputation is now a person with a lot of free time who no longer acts in the public eye.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Imagine what such a person might do if they turn out to be as bad as, or even worse than, their bullies<\/strong>, or if the bullying has simply left a psychological scar that translates into an obsession with <strong>taking justice into their own hands<\/strong>. The more widespread bullying practices become on social media, the more likely it is that some victims will end up like this, and <strong>that the bullies will suddenly become the target of a retaliation they won't even see coming<\/strong>. This is the risk that malicious people run when they trample on the rules of coexistence and engage in bullying. <strong>They believe that threatening the private life of a good person is the right thing to do if they win<\/strong>, and in doing so, they forget that they too have a private life that can be threatened by attitudes like theirs, coming from those who have suffered their despicable acts.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Thus, every time harassment begins, a clock starts ticking that the harasser doesn't see:<\/strong> the one that indicates the time that the harasser can spend from the moment they begin trying to intimidate a person until those attempts turn against them. <strong>If we're talking about harassment motivated by political extremism, the situation worsens, since the harassers are possibly creating new extremists<\/strong> (their current victims) and an environment conducive to revenge. In Spain, we already had a clear example of this: <strong>far-left activists who dedicated themselves to harassing ideological rivals ended up suffering a response of their own making<\/strong>, and now they're complaining because if before they were the harassers, now they're the ones being harassed.<\/p>\n<p>It goes without saying that I don't feel sorry for those bullies who have become victims, but <strong>their cases should serve as an example to many: this is what you risk when you try to intimidate others with mafia-like tactics<\/strong>. In the end, you might end up running into people just as mafia-like as yourself. <strong>That's why it's important to respect the basic rules of coexistence<\/strong>, because outside of them, you find yourself in a situation that can end up causing serious problems for everyone, including those who choose not to respect them.<\/p>\n<p>---<\/p>\n<p><small>Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/unsplash.com\/es\/fotos\/un-hombre-sentado-frente-a-un-monitor-de-computadora-S3jgTJ91pio\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_blank\">@lcaohoanq \/ Unsplash<\/a>.<\/small><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Social media is a fabulous forum for debate in which some people project their inability to respect others.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[10395],"tags":[25538],"class_list":["post-64941","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-social-media","tag-harassment"],"publishpress_future_action":{"enabled":false,"date":"2026-08-11 20:03:05","action":"change-status","newStatus":"draft","terms":[],"taxonomy":"category","extraData":[]},"publishpress_future_workflow_manual_trigger":{"enabledWorkflows":[]},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64941","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64941"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64941\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64941"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64941"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.outono.net\/elentir\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64941"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}